What does it mean to be honest?
Different things to different folks. To me, it means saying what you mean, meaning what you say and doing that.
Sure, it’s brilliant to be honest with others. I think what is equally important (yet not conversed about enough) is being honest with yourself.
Where might you be being dishonest with yourself today?
One area I can think of where people aren’t honest with themselves is goals and habits.
Are your daily habits aligned with your goals?
If you had the opportunity to honestly rename your goals based on your habits they may paint a better picture of where you’re headed.
One keystone habit I’m trying to create is sleep. My goal is to be healthier, more fit and more vibrant. And yet, I’m up at 4:30am writing this note.
My action does not currently line up with my goal. Tomorrow I’m at a wedding. My action probably won’t line up this whole weekend–it’s my cousins big fat Indian wedding.
I’ll aim at Monday.
For the moment, I’ll bask in the joy of self-expression and indulge in the ‘publish’ button after a long hibernation.
Polarities exist. They’re fun and helpful to hold. Polarities aren’t the best for goals. I’m seriously going to give better sleep a shot.
Onwards & Forwards Young Brown Man.
ps: Anik Khan dropped BIG FAX. Check it out.